Rob (local bloke) told me the other day that he’s finished with boats. He
used to be an avid boatie. He reckoned it wouldn’t bother him if he never got
into another boat.
Last year friend Frank decided it was time to hang up his
Coastal Patrol cap. He’d been an integral member of the volunteer organisation
for countless years.
From time to time we make decisions to end a connection with
something which has been a huge commitment in time and energy. Time to move on
, as they say. Of course for every incident where a person
“moves on” there are many more where a person doesn’t “move on”. There’re many stories of teachers who
continued in the field for much longer periods than their peers. Sadly, in the
education field, numerous teachers and educators continue in their profession
to the detriment of their own health.
My Dad, who was a government veterinarian, had an overseas
trip with work in 1959 at the age of 46. He had to deliver a paper at the World
Veterinary Conference in Madrid. Then at the age of 52, he attended another
such conference in Rome, this time taking his wife (my mother) on the trip.
After he retired he went on a number of overseas trips, mostly to North
America. I remember Dad finally telling me that his travelling days were over.
He had decided to hang up his passport.
So, what things am I involved in and which of these are
getting towards the end of their “use-by date”? Tennis? Still playing a couple
of times a week. Costs me very little in dollars and not too much in time.
(When did I last buy a tennis racquet? How much is a new one?) Then there’s my
passion for cycling. While I have certainly ceased doing 1,000 km week-long
rides, I still enjoy doing a 20 or 30 km ride locally. I know I don’t have the
same desire to camp in my sleeping bag on a pump-up mattress in a bunch of
church halls. That’s one thing I seem to have let go.
Travel? In 2011 Fay and I had a great road trip around the
USA and parts of Canada. Then in 2012 we enjoyed two months in Europe
culminating in a weeklong bicycle and barge trip – Brugges to Amsterdam. Oh, and then a week in Mexico at the end of
that. This year is a year to regroup, support family and think about where to
go in 2014. So, it doesn’t look as though the travel bug has departed just yet.
(How many more places in the world are there that we would like to visit?)
So, maybe I shouldn’t be thinking in terms of what I’m going
have to let go of, but rather what am I going to take up! Underwater macramé?
Probus? Bridge? Gardening? Volunteering at Inasmuch Retirement Hostel? Community
volunteer driver? Guess I should come back and look at this in a year or two
and see just what’s happening.
How about you? Are you about to drop something? Are you
about to take on something? Are you hanging on to something that maybe you
should be dropping? Think about it. Wanna share?